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Is This The Real Deal....I Don't Think So!

 
Besides the funny lead-in this morning... what the heck did I want to talk about today? Oh...I know...be "genuine" in life! So what is the definition of "genuine"? Well... web definitions include:
 
genuine emotions - not pretended... sincerely felt or expressed 
 
genuine character - being or reflecting the essential
 
genuine article - not fake or counterfeit
 
Do you carry a pocketful of genuine with you in life?  How great is the world if everyone in it becomes genuine?  We are all unique living beings with a mindful of imagination and possibilities.  Are you genuine with your thoughts...with your words...with your actions?  Do you say what you mean....and mean what you say?  I just want to say "thank-you" for I am blessed with genuine family, genuine friends, genuine acquaintances. 
 
I write at 5:30am because it is important to me that I write genuine thoughts.  And when I receive encouragement from genuine friends about my writings,  I am filled with renewed positive energy and I feel blessed if I am able to make one other person smile.
 
So special thanks go out to my friends who so graciously support what I do.  And to all, fill your thoughts with genuiness... fill your life with  genuiness... and in return you will smile knowing you have made a difference!  ENJOY! 
 
 
 
  

 

Imagination Is A Flowing Life Energy...Believe In It's Power

 

 Albert Einstein stated


"I am enough of an artist to draw freely upon my imagination.  Imagination is more important than knowledge.  Knowledge is limited...Imagination encircles the world!"

 

 

 

 

 

 

Mark Twain Said...

 

 

Debbie Gruss Says...  "Never lose your childlike sense of wonder...Imagine all possibilities and live a great big beautiful life!"
 

 

 

Recently I have been listening to others in the workforce and many are on the great chase of "paper power".  What I mean is they are trying to juggle life, work and the pursuit of an advanced degree.  I am not knocking down education by any means.  But the stress and worry on their faces thinking about one more thing they have to do just isn't worth it to me.  I think corporate America is missing the boat. I think our education system is missing the boat. They are forgetting about a very key element to growth both personally and professionally. IMAGINATION!  You need imagination as a foundation for all growth.  Where are the next big ideas coming from?  Well...it has to start from the imagination of someone who believes and then achieves.  It's not going to be found in a textbook.  Use your education as a base to expand your own unique possibilities which are found within your imagination. Now that is a winning portfolio.  Be free with your thoughts...share them with others and together the world will be a better place.  ENJOY!

 

 

 

 

 

Everytime I look out the window these days, I am greeted with grey skies and falling snow.  The visual alone send chills down my spine.  I grumble as I put on my hat, scarf, coat, boots and gloves every morning...every afternoon...every evening. This weather pattern has been repetitive for around 3 weeks now.  Why does this bother me now and it didn't when it first began?  Well.. it seems to me, I have let the chill get down into my soul and it's leaving today :)  You know the old adage... "You Can't Control The Weather".  Well maybe somebody is.. but it certainly isn't me so it will be what it will be.  My greatest defense to feelings like this is to remind myself over and over and over again... "All Is Well"... 3 simple words that can mellow the soul. Everyday, I go to places on the internet that show me the ocean.  Everyday, I know it is not snowing in Myrtle Beach and so I go to a webcam and watch the ocean.  Everyday now I go to a utube clip of a collection of ocean scenes and sounds that my dear friend Nora brought to my attention and I find a sense of calm knowing even though the weather has been very challenging ...this too shall pass!  And do you know where I find this peace?  I find it deep down in my soul and I say to myself over and over and over again 
"All Is Well".  Find your peace, find that place that mellows your soul and smile knowing
"All Is Well".  Throw caution to the wind... make an angel in the snow...catch a falling snowflake...imagine all possibilities....ENJOY!
 
 
 
Nostalgia...Remember When
"To look backward for a while is to refresh the eye, to restore it, and to render it the more fit for its prime function of looking forward" ~Barber, Margaret Fearless 
 
When the word "nostalgia" entered into my mind this morning, I thought it would be easy to find a great quote about this word.  But instead I found alot of negative sayings and it surprised me.  At first, I thought that I would change the topic but then decided to take on the challenge and as I moved along I also found a very meaningful quotation. 
As I drift back into my memories, I can find strength needed to move forward.  Often moving forward means challenging doubt and insecurities along the way because taking your dreams into reality is a big transition.  It is like bringing the vision of a production to the stage.  You have to take your direction, your vision to others and even when there is doubt and uncertainty you have to believe in the vision and you have to follow thru.
For me, dreams have always been to make others smile. I think I have it down almost to an art and yet I doubt my abilities when transitioning the ideas until I hear people laugh.  So, when faced with fear as I move towards my dreams, I will go down memory lane and remember those times when I helped make others smile. And then I will move forward with the renewed confidence of knowing I CAN follow my dreams!  ENJOY!
 
 
 
 
CAN I GET A 
 
What The Heck Are We Talking About Here?
 
Keeping it on the light side today...  I know I am not an expert in grammer, but I am so tired of hearing the English language just absolutely destroyed.  I've been looking at lyrics within today's popular music and I'm sorry, the intelligence level of what they are producing for our youth to hear is just ridiculous.
 
Have you heard the popular term used today... "MY BAD?" 
 
I would rather hear Beaker say
 
 
 
Than listen to one more adult say...
 
I think I am going to read a "CLASSIC" today...maybe some Shakespeare.
 
 Because when I'm 80  after gaining a lifetime of intelligence, I don't want to forget the English language and have to  communicate by saying...
 
"My bad...can you "bounce wit me" to the ladies room so I can make a "woop, woop"? 
 
That just doesn't sound right to me....
 
If you are a parent, teach your children the art and beauty of language.  Teach them at a young age to enjoy reading.  It is a path to their imagination.  My favorite childhood story was "The Lion, The Witch And The Wardrobe".  It sparked my imagination...it is a gift we should share with future generations.
 
I think I need a vacation....there has been too much snow and shoveling going on. My imagination is very active today... I hope I made you smile ... ENJOY!

 

 
Here are a couple of quotes appropriate for today's thought.
I would rather entertain and hope that people learned something, than educate people and hope they were entertained.~Walt Disney
 
I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. ~Nelson Mandela
 
Now, here is a quote from my own perspective...
 
I learned that I am a people pleaser, yet I can't please everyone  ~Debbie Gruss
 
I've experienced all of these emotions as I closed our production of "Knock em Dead".
I loved the experience...yet I didn't love the experience.  It resulted in changed relationships.  It helped me triumph over fear and find confidence in what I believe in
 It brought me to tears when I received a note from someone who didn't know me before this production and yet she saw my mission in life. She said that I have made the world a better place by supplying it with joy and laughter.  I will carry her words with me for a lifetime. Now I can walk away from this experience, move forward in life with greater confidence and with a great big smile. I hope all of you find experiences in life that are treasured moments...the good, the bad...all of it.  Enjoy life, find your passions, face your fears and for goodness sake ENJOY LIFE! 
 
 
I'm Three Sheets To The Wind...What Were You Thinking?
Sheets actually refer to the ropes that are used to secure a ship's sail.  If the 3 ropes used were loose in the wind, the sail would flop around, causing the ship to wobble around!
 See how quickly we judge?  :)  Just teasing... Now...where I am going with this is?  Well, this week I have felt like 3 sheets to the wind...my life has been flopping around because my ship's sail (inner compass) has been scattered by elements. The weather has been quite challenging and has kept me off balance.  My car is on it's last leg, it is surrounded by a  wall of snow... with a flat tire.  I go to get a car rental and 1 1/2 hours later...I get the car rental after much confusion. My work keeps increasing with no relief in sight.  My online classes started while I am in the middle of directing a show which is being effected by the weather etc... etc... etc...I seemed to be in an endless loop of "How am I going to get all of these unsettling tasks accomplished?" Well... I'm not going to rock the boat anymore! Instead I am going to...
1) Take on life one task at a time!
2)  Smile!  Have a sense of humor!
3)  Repeat!
Be calm and learn to sail calmly into the winds of life!  Enjoy the weekend! 
And now for your listening pleasure "Rock The Boat"...by the Hues Corporation. Oh and don't forget to DANCE!  I love this song!  Happy Valentines Day! 
"Sail with a cargo full of love and devotion!  Woo Hoo!"
 
 
 
 
 

 AMEN...

I am intrigued by the word "AMEN".  I have said this word ever since I was a child after prayer and for some reason, today I feel like looking at this word a little closer. 

Wikipedia definition is common English translations of the word amen include: "Verily", "Truly", "So say we all", "So be it", and "Let it be." It can also be used colloquially to express strong agreement, as in, for instance, amen to that.  There are references to "AMEN" in Christianity, Judaism and Islam.  Many Buddhists and Hindus also use Amen at the end of prayers.  So I would have to say AMEN is a pretty powerful word.  And along with this word, I have included a very strong believe "Be still and know I am God".  I would imagine for as many religions that use the word "AMEN" , there is also many interpretations of a higher being..."God" that differs from religion to religion...from culture to culture.  What is the common thread that brings us all together?  Times of reflection can bring us all a little closer.  Be still and find peace in your world.  Be still and show respect to all life.  Be still and show gratitude for your blessings. 

Amen to that!

 
Put Your Heart Into Life!
As we face the next round of winter snow storms, it's time... time to turn up our internal heater which is fueled by the thoughts and emotions we generate from within.  The first thought I had this morning as I got up from my warm bed, put my feet on the cold floor, in a dark room was... "That's alright, that's ok, I'm going to go have fun and play!"  I've realized something as this first thought flowed in.... I've regained my SENSE OF HUMOR...YAHOO!! That is the "heart" of who I am!   I've got to tell ya...I've missed it!  And the truth is, I allowed other influences to bring me down.  The cold weather, grumpy people...I mean ALOT of grumpy people are surrounding me.  I've allowed myself to feed into negative energy and that my friends isn't going to happen anymore. How am I going to change this?  First, I'm going to my happy place...YEAH BABY!  A great big heaping visual of the ocean! 
 
 
I feel better already...alright, now what else am I going to do!
I'm going to see the world again with childlike wonder... even when it snows!
I'm going to step away from those who choose to live with negative energy and light!
I'm going to speak my mind more often...with a sense of humor!
I'm going to smile and say WOO HOO to LIFE!
It is all about how YOU choose to wake up and live YOUR day... What are YOU going to do to make your day, your week, your LIFE better?  If you start your day with a little humor, filling it with positive energy and light...your life will grow and grow and GROW!
YAHOO! 
 
 
A Spinning Compass!
 
Whew...what a weekend!  My thoughts and emotions were tossed around like a ragdoll!
My inner compass needs a reset button! :)  I was contacted out of nowhere for a temporary contract position with a high salary, which I could do along with my full time job.  I had the excitement of an opening night performance and disappointment  over 2 cancelled performances due to ridiculous snowfall.  I've been on the phone for hours realigning things for next week while stuck in the house for two days.  My compass is spinning round like a record baby!  I'm honest when I say my emotions are running amuk!  I did make a decision though about at least this unexpected opportunity.  Just when I talk about money not being everything...wham a position is tossed at me that really tested what I talk about.  I decided to go with a leap of faith ... not choosing to pursue this opportunity thinking instead I am already on the right path and this was thrown in to steer me away from it.  Instead I concentrated on adding a performance next Thursday night, will hope for good weather and great audiences next weekend.  I will continue down the path of co-authoring and continue on my creative path which is the direction I keep wanting to move forward in! Sometimes it seems like your inner compass is spinning out of control.  But really, it's just a matter of releasing unsettling emotions, which in turn clears your thoughts that help reset your inner compass.  I will regroup this week and will keep on keeping on.  Enjoy!
 
What's Behind Door Number 3...Bob?

 
I don't know why the show "Lets Make A Deal" came to mind this morning with that particular common phrase... but it did.  I suppose the message is about life choices and choosing free-will when opening to see what is behind the doors of life. Acutally any door can be opened and you don't need anyone to open them for you!  :)  There will always be a crossroad, a window, a door that can open if YOU see the possibilities.  Sometimes opportunity channels flow and sometimes they run dry.  When they flow, you need to take the time to decide what is behind the choices being presented...will it move you forward on your path?  How can you tell?  Well... how does it make your energy flow?  Does the opportunity fill you up with so much positive energy and light you feel like you are going to fly away?  Or does the thought make you anxious or afraid which brings down your energy.  Energy will always be a wonderful gage for determining life choices.  It's all about the energy... don't let choices be made by money and money alone.  I know these are difficult times and money can play a major role. I want to share this story... I have a very good friend at work and we have talked about our financial burdens over the years trying to support our families.  He came up to me the other day and said "Well, I'm in financial crisis once again".  And I said to him trying to lighten his worries..."We don't have any money anyway... why not give up the stress and worry of jobs, money, etc. etc. etc. and take it back in the day when the sun rose, when the land was tilled for food, when comfort and warmth was found within nature and families were provided for! I thought about that for a brief moment and I felt a tremendous sense of peace.  We kidded about the possibility and then went back to work!  Always stay true to your free-will, Let inner wisdom guide your direction, make choices...move forward...make choices and move forward for a lifetime!  Now, where do we go when the opposite channel is flowing?  The one that is currently running "dry"?  Well these are moments of reflection and  a time to plant your feet firmly on the ground. Gage your energy level...maybe you are entering a time when you need to step back and regroup.  This isn't a bad thing...it's just a time to explore what is your purpose in life?  Are you moving in the right direction?  Maybe you need to reset your inner compass.  Are you making choices with free-will?  Who is influencing your choices?  Should they be?  If the answer is "yes" then bring them along for the ride when possibilities and opportunities begin to flow once again. If the answer is no, release them from your decision making, fly and be free!  YAHOO! 
 
 
Balance Is The Key To Life!
 

 There is good and bad, light and dark, yin and yang, ups and downs and everything in between!  So what is the key to life?  The key to life is to find balance between all the pages of life and within the palettes of our emotions.  I would be mistaken if I didn't mention the fact that we have a wide-range of characteristics and emotions within us and there will be times when thy will paint a picture within the pages of life.  There are days when I am off the charts happy and there are moments when I feel sad, angry, hurt etc...  The key is to process the emotions and find solutions with balance.  Emotions help us process experiences and if we "balance" our thoughts we will continue to move forward in life.  I change my mind more often than anyone I know.  I appreciate my friends who know me all too well and accept this fact about me.  It is a part of my personality that moves me forward in life.  When I was little I use to rant and rave when my mom wanted to cut my hair.  Big tears would fall from my eyes and then the moment she was done, I would look into the mirror with a big smile and say... "oh mommy, I love it".  Even today, I change my mind...oh I don't know... OFTEN!  But for me, it is how I deal with life changes.  It is how my emotions make me feel in the moment.  I figure it is my method of processing changes in life and at the end of the day... it's all good.   current day example is the thought of getting re-married.  One day I want to and then there are moments when panic and fear creep in and I don't think I want to.  I move things in the house and then I change them back...  I am happy when I direct a show and there are inevitible moments when I crash and burn within the process.  But with each change of emotion that I experience I always come thru the process with feelings of growth and accomplishment.

Here are things I know for certain.....
I don't cry when I get my haircut anymore... growth
I do love the man I am engaged to very much...love
I love being a parent and watching my sons grow into adulthood...pride
I will continue to share my dream of making others smile...accomplishment
In conclusion I am a very happy person who lives with positive energy and light.  I accept that I will sometimes be sad or angry.  I will process these emotions and find the path that leads back to a very happy person who lives with positive energy and light!  I wish the same for you.... ENJOY!
 
 
Gotta Keep Those Lovin Good Vibrations A Happenin!
 

 
 Ok, the Dairy Queen opens this week and I've noticed more light in the morning and evening.  I don't care what the weather report says, I don't care what the ground hog says...Spring is around the corner in my world and it fills me up with excited anticipation.  Is it possible to have Spring fever this early? Sure I can... There is no reason I can't pick up on those good vibrations and choose to include them in my day. It's my rose colored glasses and I wear them proudly.  Here are some definitions of "good vibrations"
 
48 Moby Thesaurus words for "good vibrations":
     accord, accordance, affinity, agape, agreement, amity,
     bonds of harmony, brotherly love, caritas, cement of friendship,
     charity, communion, community, community of interests,
     compatibility, concord, concordance, congeniality, correspondence,
     empathy, esprit, esprit de corps, feeling of identity,
     fellow feeling, fellowship, frictionlessness, good vibes,
     happy family, harmony, identity, kinship, like-mindedness, love,
     mutuality, oneness, peace, rapport, rapprochement, reciprocity,
     sharing, solidarity, sympathy, symphony, team spirit,
     understanding, union, unison, unity
 
I know I can have a great big heaping of these definitions, but I don't always see it in others.  When I write on this website I talk alot about moving forward in life.  But there is one thing I hope to convey even more.  You see, it's not always about "me"...it's about personal growth, growing circles of positive energy and light, and doing all of this with appreciation, kindness and respect.  I grow because I give back.  I give back and I grow...those are good vibrations that should be repeated over and over again.
The best example I can give today is with the 27 years I have been involved with theatre.  In the early days I appreciated every moment of experience and advice received.  Even today, I keep in touch with my acting mentors because wonderful friendships resulted from those experiences. And now, I want to give back to others who want to start this journey.  Also, I perform not for my own self-gratification or looking for what someone owes me,  I perform because it generates good vibrations. I perform as a volunteer because it is my passion to see others smile and it makes me smile and I fill up with positive energy and light and so does the room.  Do you see where I am going with this?
Too often in today's world I see the "I want to" but it seems to be tainted with "but on my terms and oh by the way, what's in it for me" kind of attitude.  Sometimes it's just good vibrations to act on your passions expecting nothing in return.  If you can slow down and take yourself to that place, take on your true passions in life, feel the good vibrations flow within and around you, it is a beautiful place to be.  o, I'm putting on my rose colored glasses today, taking in a deep breath of (cold) fresh air that I know will soon be (warm) fresh air because Spring is around the corner AND I will move forward with good vibrations.  Of course I've included the song!  ENJOY!
 And The Winner Is...Actually Quite Unassuming!

Do you know what I really enjoy? When you move forward on your path in a down-to-earth fashion.  This picture describes my meaning. This daily thought is about those moments

when you move forward in life and send positive energy and light throughout.  In return, not only do you find growth but so do those around you.  I'm thinking your saying to yourself... "details Debbie"! :)  Ok, last night I had a call from my son's baseball coach. I'm thinking practice and game schedules for this year's teener league.  To my surprise the conversation went in another direction.  I felt my energy go through the roof as he recognized my involvement with theatre and asked for my help after the production I am currently working on is over.  It is a very interesting idea and I am very interested!

I know my life path is very busy these days. But I also know I am moving towards changing my career from the analytical to the creative and that makes me feel like such a winner. It is what I have wanted since I was a child. All of the little pieces of my life are starting to come together and I feel great! But I feel like a winner most of all because of the wonderful friends it has brought into my life.  I'm just going to give you glimpses of this... I am thrilled beyond belief to be given the opportunity to help write a book...along with this, I have found a wonderful friend. From my childhood, my dad use to say I was a reporter from sixth street on up because I knew everything going on in town!  :)

I use to do radio commercials when I was involved with one very special theatre.  We bartered advertising for our theatre by using our actors to help create their local commercials.  And now, I am being asked to help with something that pertains to radio and found out this past summer, this coach grew up in the same small town as my family and his wife and family have become very good friends.  So the best of all when recognizing being a winner in life is not only moving forward with your path but appreciating all those who come into your life on your journey!  ENJOY!

 
Open Up The Door And Let The Good Times In!
 
Don't let nothing stand in your way...it's a brand new day!  What are you going to do with yours?  Do you know how exciting it is knowing anything is possible?  Do you anticipate the very best for yourself?  You better!  :)  Because you have to believe within yourself first, before changes can happen.  Yesterday, as I talked about fear, I set out to get past one of them and I knew I needed to go back...back to a dear friend who was my acting mentor now retired in Tennesse.  You see I am at a point in a production as a director you start to doubt your vision...is it possible to transition into reality your vision onto the stage. It was an opening door moment as I first heard this wonderful, friendly voice light up when she answered.  For a moment I also talked to her equally talented husband who filled my soul with joy and laughter.  I'll tell you one thing, these were two of the greatest actors I have ever had the pleasure to be mentored by and to work with.  Meryl Streep, Dustin Hoffman...move over...that's all I can say.  Anyway, I talked to my friend for almost an hour and she made me believe once again..."yes I can"... I can have my vision and I can bring it to life on stage.  So last night my confidence level was high and I believed.  I believed in my vision...I believed in my actors and crew and I saw my vision on stage last night for the first time since we started all of this one month ago. I know these are simple things that I talk about.  I know there is alot going on in the world.  But I also know it is the small changes in life that add up to big ones. When I brought in last night my confidence, it carried over to others and they in return gave their very best and I am very proud!  Choosing to conquer fears removes shadows of darkness from within. And once your life shines with positive energy and light, you begin to share it with others and the circles of light grower larger and stronger and then before you know it, bigger changes will start to happen.  Now is the time my friends, to overcome your fears and grow circles of positive energy and light every single day!  ENJOY.... shine in your own light and it will shine on others...BELIEVE!
 
"Be Very Quiet.... I'm Hunting Wabbits!"  Translation? I'm Facing My Fears!
 
 We all have them...fears....fears that keep us from moving forward. So what are you waiting for?  Go out and hunt for the reason why these fears exist and get over them. 
Whew, I have a laundry list of fears.  Some are obvious, some are hidden and sometimes I have to go into deep thought to determine their origins.  I realize something... fear has been a part of my life since childhood.  I'm telling you now... I am going to change all of that!  I'm going on 51 years of age... what the heck is my problem?  Well, I guess it's that I have never faced them to get past them.  My fears range from amusement park rides, to issues of swimming underwater, to worrying about the health and well-being of those closest to me and also me :) , to thoughts of am I good enough to write, act, direct, sing etc...etc.. etc..and why?  Because I let them creep in thats why!  I was told some very good advice yesterday.  You know I want to write about living with positive energy and light and yet I live in the darkness of fear sometimes.  Fear is negative...Fear is dark and if I want to share positive energy and light... I have to get past the fears.  I have to BREATHE, BELIEVE and LIVE with positive energy and light.  I have to practice what I preach!  So listen to your own chatter...be very, very quiet and start hunting your own wabbits (fears).  I am...let's do this together and let's enjoy this great big beautiful life!  YAHOO!
 
 
Today I Am Going To A New Environment Called Peace And Serenity!
When life becomes frenzied...it's time...time to take an exit towards peace and serenity.  Slow down, enjoy the experience, leave daily worries behind by conciously releasing them and move towards a new approach.  One of calmness, one of joy...the path of peace and serenity.  You create frenzied worries, you can also release them...
 As you begin your day, take a new approach...take in all the beauty your eyes can behold... share what you see and feel with passion. Take in and release positive energy and light!  Inhale the serenity of  life...exhale positive visions...and find peace!  ENJOY!
 
A Little Bit Of This And A Little Bit Of That
The picture on the home page is a parody...these framed messages are today's daily thought
 
 
 
But when you wake up with these words
You can see how I sometimes begin my daily thoughts.  This morning I ran out of ideas and started playing with words, ended up with a parody on the home page and now will the real message...staying calm.
 
This is a tough one for me.  I can't say I always stay calm in life... I do however always carry on.  Somtimes my life is like a parody...I can be calm...I can panic.  But these are life lessons to study, grow and change.  Yes, I am working on steadying my path, finding the calm in situations as I carry on.
 
I don't know what the future holds.  The fears of 2012 will generate more and more and more as time passes.  All I know for certain is this.  I believe we have a loving God, I believe in the power of positive energy and light,  I believe in the power of grace and appreciation for all living things in nature and I believe I will stay calm and carry on. Is there really any other choice?  My calm is nature, especially being near an ocean.  It can send an immediate feeling of peace over me as I listen to the sounds of the surf, take in the scent of the salt water and stand in awe of the power of mother nature.
 
So when you are panicked, find your peace in nature that allows you to find your center, your calm once again and by all means...carry on with positive energy and light.  ENJOY!
 
Oh Great...Look What My Path Dragged In!
Ok, so this is what my path looked like yesterday!  Where do you go with positive energy and light when a great big road block occurs? All of a sudden my creative path came to a screeching halt and you can see why in this picture.  Ok, I know you want more details.  :)
 
 
Well, where to begin... I have to bring in an understudy for a show I am directing 1 1/2 weeks before opening.  Along with this, another creative path circled around that I don't know what to do with.  It is a building for rent that I wanted to use for Parallelvision events, include a natural skin care line and connect with a massage therapist that is 2 buildings away.  This is the most reasonable main street property you could ever dream of, but I don't  know if I have the time or resources to consider this...but then again, why is it presenting itself now? There is a path brimming around the edges of my reality, an unchartered path that my positive energy and light shines the brightest for, but my worry channel consumes.  It is a new path and I hope what I intuitively feel is the right direction for it. And then there is my day job and that consumes my time.
 
Do you know what all of this makes me?  TIRED!  I am going out for a nice dinner tonight, get tucked in on my couch and enjoy the company of my fiance who makes me feel safe.
 
 
And then tomorrow?  Well, I am going to consider, resolve, have faith and keep on ...keeping on! That's what I am going to do.  Because in another 3 weeks, one weight will lift. I am going to take the time to consider if this available space is the right path. I am going to continue following the direction that provides in return my greatest resources, positive energy and light!  I'm going to put faith in believing my path is once again moving forward!
 
Wow, can you see how my path just cleared? Here is a visual!  Just remember, move in the direction that gives you the greatest energy and light!  ENJOY!
 
 
 
You Can't Judge A Book By Looking At The Cover!
 You can't judge an apple by looking at a tree, you can't judge the honey by looking at the bee!  I won't judge You please don't judge ME!  YAHOO! You can't judge a fish by looking in the pond, you can't judge the right by looking at the wrong.  Yes you got it, I'm singing another song!  WOO HOO!  And now with all of this....it's time for our daily thought.  Sometimes life can be tattered and torn, but like an old ragged edged book, treasures can be found deep within the pages of life.  Maybe the story is hidden but it is never forgotten.  You can rebuild positive energy and light externally by finding your beacon of light within.  Find moments where you experienced peace and joy... remember... turn the pages forward and find that peace again.  And as you rebuild from within, show kindness and don't judge others by their cover. 
Someone who is is different... just might by shy
Someone who is loud...just might be worried 
Someone who is angry ...just might be hurt
Someone who boasts...just might need reassured
So highlight the pages of life and don't judge the book by it's cover!  Enjoy!
 
Helping With The Sound Of Silence
You can say one word "Haiti" and immediately your mind fills with images of strife.  It is indeed a time to reach out and help others in need. We live in a world filled with contradictions.  I really was bothered the other night watching the Golden Globe Awards when the host chose to talk about "those in need"  and what excitement it brings them just getting a chance to see an actor's face.  He also talked about an Asian child with no belongings seeing a picture of Angelina Jole and saying "mommy". Laughter filled the room. The next person who reached the podium, then talked about the "ribbons" in support of Haiti and about fundraisers being conducted.  These kind of parallels are bothersome to me.  I want to know what goes on after the "cameras" are off.  I hear the talk... I hear the inappropriate laughter... I hear the talk. As I mentioned, if you can give money to this effort, then please do so.  If you have lots of money you can afford, do so with grace and appreciation for what you have.  If you are unable to provide money, then provide another great resource, prayer.  Help with the sound of silence and pray, strengthens positive energy and light.  There is a path to recovery...helping, sharing, believing,caring.  Another important transition is showing respect. Helping others achieve quality of life is showing respect.  Repairing the Earth after major transformations is showing respect.  Helping with the sound of silence (prayer) can change the world.
 
 
 
Rollin, Rollin, Rollin...
Sometimes when you are on your path, you have to slow down whether you want to or not! Sometimes, it is out of your control. Sometimes you feel like this...
If this is where your thoughts are right now, you are grid locked and going nowhere.  Take a break, look at your path, decide if it is moving in the right direction, if not, recalculate your life GPS and resume cruise control.  Then you will once again be rollin, rollin, rollin on your own personal journey called "LIFE"! ENJOY! Here's the  Blues Brothers version of RAWHIDE!   YAHOO!
 
 
 
In Moments When Good Times Start To Fade...You Make Me Smile!
This is a lyric from the song "You Make Me Smile" by Uncle Kracker. I love this song, I love this guy's name :) and yes, you can listen to this song at the end of today's thought.  In all of our lives, there are those who brighten our lives...even when the good times start to fade.  This thing called "life" is amazing.  It is full of wonderful surprises, quiet moments, highs, lows and everything inbetween. But do you know what is cooler than the flipside of my pillow?  (yeah...that line comes from the song too)  When you appreciate those who make a difference in your life... your family, your friends, those who make you "buzz like a bee", "spin like a record", "dance like a fool", "shine like gold".  You feel "lucky to linger in their light".  The lyrics in this song are very clever and were very helpful creating today's thought. I heard this song yesterday and knew it was my choice today.  Thank you for being who you are, for sharing your positive energy and light! Feel the JOY, share it with others! Walk up to everyone you appreciate and tell them "You Make Me Smile!"
 
 
Resume Your Regularly Scheduled Programs...(For Now)
Did you ever notice how life is really all about patience?  My mom use to say to me over and over again... "Patience is a virtue".   I believe she knew me all to well and understood this is a life lesson I need to learn. I still carry her words with me as an adult.  My mom was a very wise woman. 
Why am I bringing up this topic?  Do you ever get "flashes" of your dreams?  Do you ever see your "purpose" in life from time to time? Do you wonder why life takes you in other directions along the way?  Well, I believe each passing moment is a lesson learned, a gift to receive, a period of growth towards your "purpose".  Here's what I know for sure.  I am both analytical and creative...  I need my analytical "anchors" in life to help keep balance with my creative "tsunami's"  :)  Sometimes I feel these moments of purpose in life... I can sense the passion it creates, the creativity it stirs and yet I get up in the morning and I resume my regularly scheduled programs but it brings a smile on my face to also include ... "for now"!  Each passing day that I am able to be patient, I believe I grow stronger with my virtues of what I want to personally accomplish... bringing positive energy and light to others ... one thought, one smile at a time.  So I will share what my dear mom repeatedly shared with me...4 simple words.... "patience IS a virtue"....take these words with you and smile knowing the best is yet to come!  ENJOY! 
 
 
 
Be Happy Go Lucky Broke!
 
What the heck?  Ok.... first of all... that picture represents my "piggy bank" ... we wave at each other occasionally because money comes in... and it goes out... but rarely does it get put away.  So, should I be concerned about this?  Well...sometimes I am. But most often I am "happy go lucky" broke.  I refuse to allow my life to be ruled by the balance in my checking account. More importantly I love my work both professionally and creatively and I have enough money to take care of my family.  So that's great!  I have the belief that money will grow on trees and when I need resources, they will present themselves. I value the love of family and friends over money.  The most important things in life are free. The reason I thought about all of this recently... there is a new tv show  where 5 tribesmen from a remote country were brought to America.  They have no concept of money.... and it was extremely interesting hearing their thoughts on how our money system works and how much emphasis we place on money.  It gave me a renewed sense of what is most important in life.  The more we choose to live with positive energy and light, the more we are able to see what is most important.  And money, can be the root of all evil if it is the only thought you have.  So this week.... be happy.... live with positive energy and light and if needed, be happy go lucky... BROKE!  ENJOY!!!
 
 
 
I'm strong to the finich 
Cause I eats me spinach. 
I'm Popeye the Sailor Man.
Always taking charge!  :)
Ok, here's my question.  So things don't go your way the first time... or maybe the second etc...  What are you going to do?  It's like a fork in the road... are you going down the path of staying positive or are you going to allow yourself the path of negativity.  Well, if you choose negativity... you are now delaying your journey.  I had a choice like this... well a couple of times yesterday.  There was an issue with work, where I reached a major roadblock.  Now, I could have continued pushing it out into the field for resolution, making a choice to become dependent on their results.  OR I could take matters into my own hand.  And that's what I did.  I found the resolution myself...it took me all of 15 minutes to find resolution and I am now back on track and on my way.  Believe me, I was at that fork in the road where I could have gone down the other path and actually started to... but I did a turnaround and moved forward, recharging my energy along the way. I remember watching popeye cartoons when I was a child and I knew no matter what, once he had his can of spinach, he was going to kick some bad guy's butt!  :)  That's what we face in our own lives.  Times when we need to have that extra can of positive energy and light to carry us thru when things don't go our way and we can see our butts are getting whipped!  The key to moving past is not to allow yourself to only think thoughts such as "This always happens to me"... because if you think it, it's true.  So go out into the world today.... take along your can of positive energy and light... and get your energy boost when you need to take charge and create positive resolutions!  ENJOY!
  
 
I Hope That When You Decide...Kindness Will Be Your Guide
This important thought made me stop in the middle of the afternoon to write.  When I heard this line from the song "Put A Little Love In Your Heart" a couple of days ago, this just really captured my attention.  And so, I started to think about how I react to situations in my day to day life.  How I react when I'm not thinking or writing about positive energy and light.  How I react when I am driving in my car, or dealing with the upstairs neighbor, or how I present myself to my sons etc....  And you know what?  I realize I am not always using kindness as my guide.  So, I made a concious effort these past few days to be the person I talk about and use kindness as my guide...even in difficult situations.  I planned to just stop a moment before reacting to a negative situation and decide to use kindness as my guide.  And it has been a wonderful experience.  I have accomplished many things in many areas of my life and I feel great!  New doors are opening...and I am truly living life with positive energy and light!  I want to share this wonderful message with you...so I am sending out a message to share with others!  If you like what you read here, pass this link onto your family and friends!  And until we meet again... ENJOY!  Life Is Good!
 
 
Put One Foot In Front Of The Other...And Soon You'll Be Walking Out The Door!
Recently, I changed direction.  I changed some habits around, I started excersing, my energy was full of spunk both mentally and physically.  I felt the winds of change blowing in my direction.  This week?  Not so much!  :)  But that's ok because "there's always tomorrow" for dreams to come true.  Ok folks, Christmas season is fast approaching and I am talking about two of my favorite songs from when I was young that came from the claymation stories of "Rudolph The Red-Nosed Reindeer" and "Santa Claus Is Coming To Town"  Ok, here we go another positive energy and light inspiring moment as we listen to and read...yes you got it....There's Always Tomorrow and the lyrics to Put One Foot In Front Of The Other (sorry, can't find a video clip of this one)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CUgMaL89Lqc 
Put one foot in front of the other
And soon you'll be walking cross the floor
Put one foot in front of the other
And soon you'll be walking out the door
You never will get where you're going
If you never get up on your feet
Come on, there's a good tail wind blowing
A fast walking man is hard to beat
Put one foot in front of the other
And soon you'll be walking cross the floor
Put one foot in front of the other
And soon you'll be walking out the door
If you want to change your direction
If your time of life is at hand
Well don't be the rule be the exception
A good way to start is to stand
Put one foot in front of the other
And soon you'll be walking cross the floor
Put one foot in front of the other
And soon you'll be walking out the door
If I want to change the reflection
I see in the mirror each morn
You mean that it's just my election
To vote for a chance to be reborn
I love my childhood memories and these songs along with many others were a gift to a child's imagination because it encourages you to be your own person and to create change in your life with positive energy and light!  Take in these words and music for they are a gift to your imagination.  Buy these classic movies and share these stories with your children.  Always take time to support your children with positive energy and light!  
 
Practice The Art Of Excellence !
What a WOW factor this can be! If you choose to live your life with passion, commitment with a dash of excellence.  Everything becomes more alive around you.  It is certainly a positive energy and light enhancer.  Others will be drawn to it and they will want to find it in their own lives.  The best example I can give is to show you clips of what I believe to be the greatest dancer  EVER... Fred Astaire.  I have found two clips of dance performances.  One clip shows his tapping abilities the other the use of his imagination to dance with props.  Please take a moment to watch these.  I hope you feel the sense of excitement I do watching someone so committed to his passion in life... gotta dance! 
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-_o9pXLZKtM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8rxRCSI7ZXY
What art of excellence can you practice in your own life?  It feels amazing when passion, commitment and a dash of excellence combine and create positive energy and light.  I hope you catch the feeling watching a true master of his art!     ENJOY!
 
 
Rome Wasn't Built In A Day...So, Don't Make The Same Mistakes!!!
Ok... received a great sense of encouragement from a dear friend who forwarded me this article about the year 2012.  So, I will title this section "Positve Thoughts" and as thoughts come to me, I will present them to you.  So take a peek often, as you know I have the gift of gab!  I just will not do the same  timeline of writing at 5:30am every morning.  I will write when so moved.
ased on what I read in this article written by a Mayan elder made me realize what I deliver here is very important.  I understand more why Parallelvisions evolved into "Sharing positive energy and light...one smile, one thought at a time ".   
So, here we go!
sk yourself this question?  Do you live your life today with positive energy and light?   Again…  DO YOU LIVE YOUR LIFE TODAY WITH POSITIVE ENERGY AND LIGHT???

 If you are unsure… don’t make the same mistakes as the Romans! 

If you recall, the frenzy  of the Roman empire that made life choices…living in greed, money and power, all negative energies…well, I believe the correct scenario is

 “The Rise And Fall Of Rome”!

Start living your life with these simple ideas.

Appreciate and Respect the Earth

Live with gratitude and simplicity

Share this knowledge with others

 am going to start today by sharing the article that was sent to me.

http://astrology.about.com/od/2012/a/MayanElder.htm

Don’t live your life in fear of the unknown.  Create your path and future, choose to live with positive energy and light!!!  

 
 
One, Two, Three, Look Outside And See!
"See what?"...you maybe asking.  Well, survey says "Whatever you can imagine!"  Isn't that an entertaining thought! We all have an imagination.  If I spoke to you personally and asked "If you wanted to do or change something in your life that will give you a creative edge, that will make your positive energy and light "shine"...what would you do?" Could you answer the question with a smile and a belief it could happen?  I can...  And you know what is great about this?  It is starting in my own backyard!  I don't have to make the vision so big it becomes out of reach.  I realize it is the small, steady path that will continue to move me forward.  Don't look at me and tell me you can't...because there are possibilities for all of us.  You just have to reach for them and believe it can and will happen!  My very close friend lost her job where I work.  She decided she wanted to go on an adventure before looking for work again.  So she did and she taught children at a school in Africa.  Yep, she planned the trip, traveled alone and has changed her life.  Because, she now found a purpose and wants to go other places where she can teach children in remote areas.  I told her to look for a sponsor, some type of funding will be found if this is truly her path.  This makes me very happy and I am very proud of her.  For myself, I just love to make others smile, so my creative path will move forward as an actor, director, writer, public speaker and now a singer.  I will find the means to transition myself from corporate America!  Can you see how exciting this is?  One, two, three, I can look outside and see change is in the air and it makes me smile.  Enjoy! 
 
Artistic Reinvention...Changing Life With A Creative Path!
Wow...I did it!  I went to Kansas City and they liked it! The greatest joy was, I reinvented the song to suit my personality and they noticed :)  What a weekend of growth.  I sang in public for the first time and overcame another fear in my life. I hope you thought about the challenge I presented to you on Friday, because even though it made me very nervous, it ended up being very fun.  I also hope you like the new style and theme of this website.  I decided it was time for a little website updating and I wanted to include my favorite colors.  Change is good my friends.  Artistic reinvention to create change is... well as they say in the commercial..."Priceless"! :)
The more I take on the responsibility of overcoming my fears, the more freedom I feel!  My horizons are broadening.  I think I want to sing again.  I have ideas where I want to take this and I am very excited. Open up your mind this week, overcome your fears and let artistic reinvention flow!  Have a wonderful day and may the best of everything come your way!  It's possible when you live your life with positive energy and light!  ENJOY!
  
 
I'm Going To Kansas City...Kansas City Here I Come! Yeah
It's time to dance!!!!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s-9hEKFMgJo
You know I'm going to tell you to get up and dance often!  It's one of my favorite things to do!  Don't tell me you can't dance...if you can get up and move...you can dance!
Greetings just a little bit late today...I'm off work and I am enjoying a leisurely morning!  I figure since I don't write on Sat/Sun, if you are an early reader, you will have something to read over the weekend!  :)
Ok, by now I suppose you are asking yourself...what the heck is she talking about today?  Well my friends I am going to talk about overcoming your fears in life to move forward!  And I am going to tell you why the song Kansas City has so much meaning for me.  I have done theater for over 30 years now and I enjoy making others smile. There have been two challenges I have always wanted to overcome.  One was my fear of speaking in public...now you may say, but you do theater!  Yes, but realize that being on stage, you rarely connect directly with your audience.  As a public speaker, you are looking directly at your audience and that presents a major fear for most people.  I decided to overcome this fear.  It was intense because I couldn't stand to hear the sound of my own voice over an intercom.  But I faced this challenge by having to be a corporate trainer and going to Toastmasters where it's all about the speeches!  Although I was filled with terror,  I overcame my fear gradually and now I can speak in front of others as well as being on stage to make others smile.
Now, the other fear I have wanted to overcome is singing.  TONIGHT... I will take the challenge and sing my heart out and yes you guessed the song will be Kansas City!  Now, to add to this fear...there is a close friend who was suppose to be in this show but then was not able to because of work conflicts.  This is the song that closes out the first act. This is her signature song...  Ok, so as I overcome this fear...just what I needed a little more stress as I overcome this fear!  BUT do this I shall and you never know where else it might lead!  So my challenge for you this weekend...find that one thing, that one fear that YOU need to overcome.  Take the challenge...I'm going to Kansas City!  ENJOY!
 
 
Run The Gamut...No... I said Gamut...Not Amuck!
There's a difference.  When you choose to run "amuck" you are living a busy, random life filled with empty direction.  When you choose to run the "gamut" it is by choice that life is very busy and is moving in many directions BUT it is with purpose, it is with intent and it is filled with gratitude for those who cross your life's path.  Life can be incredible, life can be simply amazing when you begin with a purpose...when you choose to see life thru eyes that shine with positive energy and light.  Life can be filled with amazing grace...you just need to recognize the winds of change and fly free in the moment.  Do I have my head in the clouds?  Yes, I do...it is by choice that I see a great, big, beautiful life.  It is by choice that I want to share it with others, it is by choice that I appreciate all that is and all that is yet to come my way. Do I have money in my life...well it is receive and it goes out as quickly as it is received. And yes, I am able to provide for my family.  Do I struggle with money?  Sure... I struggle with money.  Does it rule my life?... NOPE...I'm happy!  The path I have for myself... well it is priceless!  Choosing to live with positive energy and light...absolutely free! What is most important in life...I only have to use my eyes to see... my sons, my fiance, my family, my friends, my fiance's family, my parents who are with me in spirit...all very strong examples of wealth in my life!  My dreams, my passions, realized today, tomorrow, with each passing decade yet to come.  Do I care about getting older?  NOPE!  For it is my energy and light that will carry me forward and right now I can get down to the level of a child. :)  Do you see where I am going here today...LIFE IS AMAZING! I am going to run the gamut so I can see, feel and breath in a great, big, beautiful life!  ENJOY your moments, appreciate your experiences and live with gratitude! 
 
Get Up Offa That Thing!
Here's some funky soul music to start your day!  Time to dance!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pq1w0syylZI
So now that I have your attention...
You just got your groove on...move on out and do your thing today! Remember, if you have problems to face...."get up offa that thing and go relieve your pressures!"  You know I like to put a positive spin on my thoughts and send out messages in an enlightened way, and I already know this topic can be difficult.  If you are dealing with problems in your life I know this isn't easy.  But here's the point.  If you sit around and just worry and fret your time away...nothing gets solved!  You need to step up, take control and take actions in your life that will move you towards resolution.  We all have junk in our trunk to deal with...but I choose to deal with it NOW!  I choose to see beyond the moment!  I choose to move up and move beyond so I can continue to live my life with positive energy and light!  In the moment and beyond I choose to live a great, big, beautiful life!  In the moment and beyond, I choose gratitude!
Find peace even in difficult times....smile...burst into laughter... enjoy a light-hearted spirit and gracefully move past difficult times. 
 

 

Ok...Ready?  Now LAUGH!  I mean it!
Here's a nice quote for today...
At the height of laughter, the universe is flung into a kaleidoscope of new possibilities.  ~Jean Houston
Here's another one...
What soap is to the body, laughter is to the soul.  ~Yiddish Proverb

And one more...

 've always thought that a big laugh is a really loud noise from the soul saying, "Ain't that the truth."  ~Quincy Jones

Here's some health benefits of a good laugh...

Dr. Tian Dayton writes in a piece for the Huffington Post that laughter has major health benefits and presents the idea that we may very well be able to laugh our way to better health and fitness. For example, laughing can:

  • relax your muscles
  • reduce stress hormones
  • alleviate pain
  • elevate the immune system
  • cleanse the lungs from deep respiration
  • act as a type of cardiac exercise by being equivalent to "internal jogging."

And now here is my spin on having a good belly laugh!

It's  Gene, Gene...THE DANCING MACHINE!!!

 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9R28b8XXoXs

Yeah...that's a favorite!  Now seriously...(or not)...laughter doesn't cost you anything.  Laughter gives you a wonderful perspective on life.  Laughter comes from the soul!  Laughter brings people together.  Laughter generates positive energy and light. I could go on and on about the joy of laughter...it is my friends the best medicine you should stock up on!  Enjoy your day...Enjoy a good laugh for it is a smile taken to the next level! And that certainly feeds positive energy and light into the world!

 

 
I Get Two More Wishes...Right?
3 wishes...magic lamp...genie in a bottle!  If only it was that easy. The question is...what do you wish for in your life and how strongly do you believe it can happen?  That is the task I am going to give you for this weekend!  :)  Sounds like fun...right?  You don't need a magic lamp with a genie who grants wishes...you can go within, create your own wish list and then take action in your life to grant them or bring them to reality!  WOW!  Here's what I'm going to wish for.
1) peace, health and happiness to my family and friends
2) peace, health and happiness to myself
3) repeat....1 and 2!
Ok....that's my overall big picture wishes.... I have more that I want to realize within my daily life
1) Author and public speaker
2) Go into Pittsburgh and get acting gigs (PAID...acting/directing gigs!)
3) Put together a funny/music variety show and take it on the road!
Ok...those are my creative wishes!
Last but not least... keep my day job until 1-3  on my creative wishlist comes true!
Here's the beauty of this story...IT CAN HAPPEN!  If I set my mind and find the right people...I can make it happen! Can I hear that again  IT CAN HAPPEN!....for me and for you!  So, get THINKING....get BELIEVING....YES, YOU HAVE A LIFETIME OF WISHES THAT CAN COME TRUE!  Enjoy you weekend!
 
Taking In A Good Life, Good Deeds, Good News
I've been wondering about new topics for this webpage.  In a discussion with a friend, it was suggested I write about new headlines.  Well, I ventured out there today and went flying back into my nice little bubble. Here is my conclusion! There is an abundance of "nasty" out there.  I was determined to find a place that delivers some good news.  Am I being unrealistic?  Maybe...but I tell you what, when I look at my day, I want to look out at a much nicer place than what mainstream media presents.  And so I went on a search this morning for some positively good news!  And I stumbled across a website that actually commits to delivering "good news"!  Positively good new!  And that will be the source I will drive from....  We need to take in a good dose of positive energy and light...everyday!  I am on a renewed path my friends....something about the tremendous rebound you feel after you have been down for awhile almost lifts me off my chair.  I'm back baby.... and I will spread the word of "good" even louder than before!!!  It' time to make a renewed commitment to yourself to stand up for what you believe in, to do good deeds, to take in a good life and to share an echo of good news for a change!  ENJOY!
 
It's All In The Set-UP
The holidays are fast approaching.  We breezed past Halloween, we are zooming towards Thanksgiving, and before we know it, Christmas will be here!  So, before we begin this journey, how about if we set ourselves up for an enjoyable holiday season instead of a hurried, stressed, rushed one.  How are we going to accompish this you may ask?  Well, we are going to look into 3 areas of our life that will be impacted during this time.  The areas of time, energy and money!  How much time, energy and money are you going to spend getting ready for this holiday season?  What is the key to being successful in all of these areas?  The key is to find simplicity within each task.  The key is to be determined not to overspend money.  The key is to spend your time with positive energy and light!  As you begin your long list of "things to do", approach each area with a calm sense of reality knowing "what you can do" and accept with grace what may not be possible.   Believe me, I would rather be in the company of family and friends with good food and conversation then worry about gift exchanges. So plan your holiday season with simplicity, grace and sharing.  Set yourself up first to receive the endless joy that can be found during this very special time of year when we set a calm point before the madness begins!  Remember, it is your choice to move along with positive energy and light.  It is your choice to decide the who, what, where and when of your holiday season.  For me,  I shop online, I put up a very nice tree and a few decorations,  I plan time with family and friends and I let the holiday season...happen!
ENJOY!
 
Ask Yourself These Questions...
I am going to start today's thought with a couple of questions. Do you have time to see past the next step?  Did you have time to think about the last mile?  These are thoughts contained in the classic song by Chicago "Does Anybody Really Know What Time It Is?" that I am now asking you because today I want to talk about moving forward and the importance of how you choose to spend your time.  Every day I try to find the time I need to move forward and I try not to let time slip away from me.  My biggest challenge is when my energy level starts decreasing for two reasons.  Either I am bored because I am working on a repetitive task or I reach that point in the evening where I enter the "sleepy zone" and at that point it's lights out! But I jump up at 5am fully charged, get ready for work, and start to write which is where I am at right now!  (Didn't you laugh yesterday at the "When Will Then Be Now" clip?)  If you didn't catch yesterday's thought...go to the "past thoughts" section where you will find all of my previous daily thoughts.  Anyway, do you realize the importance "time" has in your life?  Do you continue to have habits that keep you from moving forward because you are wasting time?  The biggest time stealers I can think of is television (for adults) and video games (for children).  These are habits that can lead you down the path of...drum roll please...nowhere! I am changing my habits of watching television, reducing this to maybe 1/2-1hr at the very end of the night when I am entering the "sleepy zone".  And I have advised my younger son, he needs to decide what else he is going to do with this time because I am also reducing the amount of time he spends on his XBox.  I have many things that I want to accomplish in my lifetime.  I realize that it is not age that will keep me from my passions, it is how I choose to spend my time that impacts my ability to pursue these passions.  So, what do you want to do with the rest of your life!  Only "time will tell"  !!!  Enjoy your weekend...choose how you will spend your time...make new habits that will lead you to the next mile marker!  ENJOY!
 
 
 
Enjoy A Seriously Funny Life!
It can happen! I had a conversation yesterday and we talked about Mel Brooks...a comedic genius in my book.  He is most noted for his ability to create hilarious movie spoofs.  His sense of humor strikes a harmonious chord within that even on a day that is heading "south", if I listen to one of his movie clips...it makes me stop and smile.  His ability to take scenarios and add a comedic spin to them is great. He would take "what if" scenarios and twist them into humor.  Here is a clip from his spoof on Star Wars titled "Spaceballs...The Movie"  this scene is titled   "When Will Then Be Now?"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zvd3kaupZ60
So I was thinking "what if" I use humor and live a seriously funny life!  Ok....sounds like a plan!  Now, I will be the first to tell you not everyday is a great big barrel of laughs.  But I do have the ability to turn things around quickly and get moving back on the right laugh track so to speak!  So, when things get you down...find resolution...get back up and enjoy a great big beautiful life...because my friends the alternative is no fun! SMILE...LAUGH...ENJOY!
 
Northern Lights Over Tepees And A Fire Rainbow
Today I want to share some amazing photos with you
In case you ever wonder about the power of nature, this is humbling.  In case you ever wonder about the existence of energy... let your vision guide you
 
If a picture tells a thousand words...
I could get into the scientific aspect of these beautiful pictures, but I just want to talk about the power of nature and our need to respect this power and to continue living life with positive energy and light. As we go about our concrete lives, take time to take in the beauty that surrounds you.  Take the time to appreciate the glorious fall colors for they only last for a fleeting moment.  Appreciate a cool-crisp day, a warm sunny day, the pitter-patter of a gentle rain, the respect of a thunderstorm and a diamond-like snowfall.  Warm-Cold,  Sunny-Cloudy...Day-Night ....awesome!  We tend to get so caught up in everyday life, we don't include time to take in the beauty of nature.  So go out today and take in some nature.  Let life flow within it...be in awe of it...and as always remember to send out positive energy and light into the world with a smile, with a sense of enthusiasm, with a knowing.  Enjoy!
 
Yesterday, I Couldn't Believe My Ears!
As I moved thru my day yesterday, there was a powerful surge of negative energy presenting itself.  I am only human and I have to admit, I got caught up in a surge of anger that lingered thru the night and has made me somewhat drowsy this morning.  The icing on the cake was when I woke from a sleep and saw The Daily Show I just couldn't believe my ears. There was a guest author, Barbara Ehrenreich who wrote a book titled "Bright-Sided.. How the relentless promotion of positive thinking has undermined America". I thought to myself...you have got to be kidding and so I sat up and listened.  This woman exuded negativity unlike anyone I have encountered to date.  NORA...I am more encouraged than ever to move forward with our books!!! :)  If this type of author is able to show up on a national television show and has the ability to distort the intent of living life with positive energy and light, then we have got to be the "ying" to her "yang" and we need to be heard!  Here's all I can say to you right now.  Every morning you have a choice.  Personally I am filled with gratitude and appreciate my life.  I believe from the bottom of my heart the thoughts I expressed yesterday.  Appreciating your life as it is today, gives you a sense of well-being and life will be big and beautiful.  Now when I say "big and beautiful" I am not talking about massive wealth, I am talking about the joy of living an everyday life.
Ok...life example.  Yesterday, I had $8 in my pocket or should I say to my name. I have to get by until 10/31 before I get paid again.  I knew in my heart, it would all be ok.  I knew I needed money so my son and I could have food on the table this week.  Still having money in the bank before bills were paid, I took money out that I needed to get by understanding the risk of what I was doing.  I am waiting for a check that did not show up over the weekend and that was the reason for this problem. I didn't know how this was going to work out, but I did what I needed to do and had faith it would be ok.  It ended up, my brother contacted me yesterday and I asked him to hold a check I paid him until the check came in that would clear it, I found the money I needed to get by for the week AND THAT IS THE POWER OF POSITIVE ENERGY AND LIGHT.  The distorted perception this woman presented nauseated me and I went to bed knowing exactly what I would write about this morning.  It's a choice my friends. And I personally choose to live my life in a way that makes it very worthwhile.  It's not about money...money is paper.  It is my attitude toward the life I have that matters.  It is believing I will someday be an author and public speaker that matters.  It is the smile I can put on another's face that matters.  And I welcome the challenge of this author and if you want to see her interview you can find it on Comedy Central and make your own conclusions.  The fact of whether I will be all that I imagine for myself is not known at this time.  BUT it will be a freaking great big WOO HOO making the journey followed by an endless series of YAHOO's each time I accomplish something big or small as I will always choose to move forward in life with positive energy and light!  Enjoy your day!
 
Thoughts = Words = Behaviors = Habits = Values = Destiny
It has been an interesting journey this weekend.  First, a special "thanks" goes to my friend Frederick for sending me very interesting clips on how to win the lottery.  To see his website go to my favorite links page.  What sparked my interest was the speaker's presentation talking about vibrational escrows, which led me to a very interesting topic "The Law Of Vibration".  The law of vibration applies to everything you think, act, intend and speak. You want to make certain these expressions are reflected positively.   To further my quest to help others live their lives with positive energy and light, I came across a utube clip which expressed a very powerful thought.  I want to share these words with you...I am not certain who authored the words only a Utube tag of "mrflanell" 

My thoughts are positive because my thoughts become my words

My words are positive because my words become my behaviors

My behaviors are positive because my behaviors become my habits

My habits are positive because my habits become my values

My values are positive because my values become my destiny

POWERFUL WORDS... and it also confirms what I talk about daily with you.  You see, we are all really saying the same thing, it is those words that spark the reader into action that matters most.  I hope sharing my thoughts with you are an inspiration that carries you forward in life.  I hope by sharing my thoughts, you become inspired to live a great, big, beautiful life.  HAPPY MONDAY!!!  ENJOY!!!
 
Life Is A Rollercoaster Baby , Fly With Your Arms In The Air
In other words...choose to live your life without fear.  It isn't always an easy thing to do and I can say that firsthand.  Often though our fears are unfounded and can actually hold you back.  I have a good friend who recently lost her job. Before she ventures back into the daily grind of work, she decided to go on a 1 month adventure into Africa to do volunteer work with children.  She just left and I am so proud of her decision.  Yesterday in the cafe at work, a mutual friend asked me "Did you know Tammy left to go to Africa?  Oh my....why would she ever do that?  Oh my, oh my oh my...can you even believe it? That would be so scary"  Etc...etc...etc... closing with "I could NEVER do something like that, it would scare me to death!"  In that moment I thought to myself...yep she rides the rollercoaster of life with her arms gripping the bar and strapped in very tightly.  Now, I'm not saying we are all going to jump on a plane into a foreign unknown place, but I would NEVER abandon the possibility. 
Live life with wreckless abandon though?  No...not saying that really, although it is an intriguing thought!  :)  But never say "I could never do that" because you have made a decision out of fear without first thinking about the possibility.  Another example, I was talking to a friend who is going to host a Parallelvisions event and I shared some life experiences of times when I just went out on a limb in my everyday life.  And again it was the "I could never do that" response and I told her...  "Oh yes you can!"  And do you know what the beauty of this is?  Even if the "limb" I choose to go out on results in nothing, it is the joy of the adventure that matters most. It also removes another layer of fear and it brings back to you positive energy and light.  So remember, life is a topsy-turvy rollercoaster...I say..."YAHOO...fly with your arms in the air and live without fear"!  Enjoy your weekend!  Go out and find your adventures in life!
 
When Life Is Running Amuk...Run In The Opposite Direction!
Say what?  I have to comment, this week so far has been quite the challenge.  There were raised voices, big puffed up egos, backstabbers (which I really have a problem with) "Thou Shall Not Backstab One Another", I think this should be the 11th commandment. And if I am always honest, I have to say, yes I have been angry this week. But there was a silver-lining with one scenario that I would like to share with you.  I was in the middle of some heated e-mails and I thought to myself "geez, life is running amuk!"!  And then I decided to run in the opposite direction!  I stopped the arguing and complimented the effort of the person I was communicating with.  The tone of the e-mails softened from that point on and ended with the realization that we both were actually on the same page and the negative energy was removed.  I have experienced this repeatedly during my life where I did not like someone in the beginning, I guess I was actually judging a book by it's cover and then a turning point would happen and we would become friends.  That was cool!  So now I am on a mission...when I get caught up in a negative snag, I am going to go in the opposite direction and pull in positive reinforcements for resolution.  I smile knowing it works!  I hope you choose to follow this path as well!  Life is good and I am grateful for all those who cross my path.  I actually believe this scenario yesterday resulted in a new friendship.  Enjoy your day!
 
Light Up A Sunny Smile...Let Laughter Fill The Room
Holy smokes...why are there so many people arguing just for the sake of arguing?
Why are so many people lacking courtesy when others speak.  Why can't we all just get along, light up a sunny smile, let laughter fill the room and accomplish something good!  Whew... it can be exhausting trying to be a voice of reason.
Well, that is what I faced last night at a board meeting.  It was like being caught up in a surf that repeatedly knocked you off your feet.  There was a great divide between old and new board members.  There was so much tension in the air it could hold up a falling sky.  It was like spoiled children all together in one room bickering over a toy.  For some reason the wrap up meeting of the year turned into a free for all and accomplished absolutely nothing.  Have I given you a vivid enough description of the evening? :)   That's what you get though when you choose to go down the path of negative energy and light.  You get a great big NOTHING at the end of the day.  Did this meeting accomplish anything?  NOPE!  A negatively charged emotional room will get you nowhere and that was the condition of the room when I had to leave.
How did I react?  Well, I am only on this board one more month and I told them they need to remove the negative emotions out of these meetings and they need to communicate with each other with a listening ear and an open mind or else they will spiral downward...there is no way to move forward in this environment.
 
 
I think for my last meeting...I will make an impression by lighting up the room with a sunny smile and disposition. Here's a picture of me at the North Pole starting to think about my holiday daily thoughts!  Do you think this entrance will work?  Just kidding...I added this picture because I hope it makes you laugh!
Enjoy life! Do the unexpected.  Don't take it all so seriously you forget how to smile! Don't feel you have to ALWAYs be right and for goodness sakes fill your life with positive energy and light...it matters!!!
 
Moonbeams Bring Thoughts As Gentle As The Sky
I did it again...I saw a singer's name and found a line for my daily thought.  The first thing I saw this morning while searching was Buddy Holly.  I don't really know all of the songs he sang so I searched and searched until I found a line from a song that touched me and this lyric certainly did.  It is a very artistic line...what do I want to say about it in my daily thought?  Well my translation is "Positive Light (moonbeams) Enhances Positive Thoughts (brings thoughts) That Can Be As Gentle And As Effective As The Actions You Take In Your Life (as gentle as the sky).  Ok, now I am done "playing with words" so here's my thought.  I started this theme yesterday when I stated I would move forward with quiet confidence.  Well, I started that yesterday with my approach at work.  I quietly accomplished many tasks and one of the opportunities I mentioned was to be able to express thoughts to our CEO. We were in a small group session and he wanted us to speak our mind.  As he talked about people not wanting to change, that struck a chord with me and so I carefully thought about what I wanted to say concerning this. And I said it... and it was well-received.  He said it was a very good point that he would take into consideration.
Was I asked to join his staff in that very moment?                                              "NO"
Did I receive notification that I was going to get a big raise???                            "NO"
Were they singing my praises down the hall as they returned to their offices?   "NO"
So, you maybe wondering....what's your point?  The point is when I returned to my office I felt like I was floating.  Actually I was beaming with positive energy and light.  It was a personal moment of growth because I wasn't afraid to speak.  I wasn't afraid to address a CEO and talk in front of a group about what I believe.  Hey, that's a big accomplishment for someone who aspires to be a "public speaker" about living life with positive energy and light.  It was a quiet victory for me.
I like this new approach...I like being the "turtle instead of the hare" (I don't have to rush my life)...I like being the "Indian instead of the Chief" (I don't need a title to be heard)  Instead, I just need to BELIEVE IN what I say! I just need to EXPRESS IT  with quiet confidence!  I just need to KEEP ON, KEEPING ON...because at the end of the day and for all of those yet to be lived... I WILL be living a great, big, beautiful life filled with gratitude and joy.  BELIEVE, COMMIT....express yourself with quiet confidence!  ENJOY! 
 
Whisper Words Of Wisdom
It's Monday and I have opportunities this week to make an impression and as I was trying to determine the theme for our topic today, the "Beatles" kept coming to me because they have been quite the buzz lately.  As I started thinking about all of their songs, "Let It Be" kept coming to mind.  When I looked over the lyrics the line "whisper words of wisdom" seemed quite appropriate for today's topic.  As I have mentioned,  there are going to be alot of opportunities for me this week to express all that I know.  There are many ways to come across to others, choosing the most effective one can be a challenge.  I have decided to take the quiet, confident, calm approach where I will choose my words carefully and I will whisper words of wisdom. I believe this approach will be more effective than coming across  big and loud and having to proof points to let everyone know I am always right!
When you express yourself with "quiet confidence"....people will take the time to listen and you will be respected.  When you choose to push your presence on others being BIG AND LOUD, your chances of being heard and respected will diminish.  So when you want to make a point in this great big world, choose to whisper words of wisdom with a quiet confidence that will be noticed.  It will boost you self-worth tremendously knowing you can capture the attention of others, that you can be heard and not have to overdo your expressions in life.  It can be a very peaceful place that others WILL notice and it generates positive energy and light.  Enjoy the start of a brand new week...make a difference!  And a follow-up to "Gene, Gene The Dancing Machine"....Saturday night, we were dancing in the streets of Ligonier and it was an amazing experience.  The Vogues were the main feature of Ligonier Days and they closed off East Main street which created a wonderful dance floor.  There was a chill in the air, but everyone was having fun and it created the most amazing energy!  Smiling and dancing really stirs the Universe as strangers came together laughing, singing, and talking with each other.  At the heart of it all....they were dancing!
 "I love it when a plan comes together"
Did you notice how I just said that?  I said it with quiet confidence!!!
 
That's Gene, Gene, The Dancing Machine!
Clip time...and a history lesson before the daily thought.  In the early 70's  Chuck Barris created what was to be the first "reality" television shows.  He was responsible for "The Dating Game", "The Newlywed Show" and by far the funniest show I can remember "The Gong Show".  In comparision to the current "America's Got Talent", this show would bring on amateur acts and there was a panel of 3 judges.  If the judges did not like the act they would hit a giant gong that was behind them.  And so now I present for your viewing pleasure... Gene, Gene, the dancing machine! (hit the backspace green arrow to return to this page after viewing the clips)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ACpNVD5GMUw

 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9R28b8XXoXs

Here is a striking resemblence of people having this much fun in today's world...It is when Ellen Degeneres dances her way on to the stage...take a look!

  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dNpBN0mPwJ4

 Ok...now, what is the message I am trying give out to the world.  Life needs to be fun and we all need to dance....yes, sometimes even as an adult it's time to get your groove on.  Did you not see grown adults between these two decades doing the same thing? Oh and did you notice age did not seem to matter?  They laughed and laughed and danced and danced and cheered and cheered.  Wow....this being silly stuff really packs a powerful punch.  In one clip, you can see a sign "Chuck Barris For Prez"!  And as I searched thru the Ellen clips...there is also a clip of Michelle and Barack Obama dancing on her show.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tW3u4DugwRg

 Here is my challenge for you this weekend!  Take time to DANCE!  Take time to LAUGH!  Take time to just be SILLY! It will energize your positive energy and light.  I do this all the time.  It relieves the seriousness of this world.  And did you also notice it brought complete groups of strangers together!  So, when you are starting to feel down and out remember this phrase  "That's Gene, Gene The Dancing Machine"!  Then, just get up, put a song in your heart and lighten the load by moving your feet!

Enjoy your weekend...that is my challenge to you...as they say, put a smile on your face and the world will smile with you!

 
Who Do You Love? Who Do You Trust?
I hope you have included yourself in this list.  Now, I want to be very careful in defining "I love myself"...because I certainly do not mean in the capacity of being a selfish, conceited jerk. (that comment just made me laugh)  What I do mean by this topic today is this.  Before you are able to bring into your life fulfilling relationships, before you experience a great big beautiful life, you must first understand the beginning of this process comes from within.  And once you understand this...your need to then share it with others. You have to first be able to look at yourself in the mirror everyday and know "I am worthy" and know regardless of age that you will always be "worthy" of anything you want to accomplish in life.  There is not age barrier, it is always going to be a mindset that YOU create. If there are limits they are being created from within. If you want to say, "I can't do this anymore, I'm getting older"...so be it, for you have decided to set the limit.  So along with knowing you are worthy, you also need to also "trust" your internal wisdom and ability to guide yourself and others. When I say "others" I mean in the capacity of raising children or raising awareness to those who cross your path. Be a mentor to help guide others into living a life filled with positive energy and light.  Encourage others to know they are worthy and only need to look within for the answers that will help move them forward in life. After you guide them, after you make them aware,  of course it then becomes their choice on whether they take action.  Because as we all know the only person we will ever be 100% responsible for is ourselves. I love the song "All My Life's A Circle" by Harry Chapin.  He expresses a vision in this particular lyric that sums up my thought for the day.
As I find you here again;
A thought runs through my mind;
Love is like a circle;
Let's go 'round one more time.

Now, put this thought into your head.  If you begin with a respectful love of yourself and a trust of your inner wisdom, and then help others to do the same, won't the circles of positive energy and light grow and grow and grow into larger circles of love and trust and living with positive energy and light and so on and so on.

Love that you are worthy....trust your inner wisdom...go out and make a difference today....ENJOY!

 

Do You Effectively Express Your Impact On This World?
Hmmm....what do I mean by this?  Wait...it's coming to me... :)  Ok...here is another angle....it's a great big world...what is your take on it...why are YOU here?  If you have not yet determined your life path...it's time.  I have to take a moment today to talk about a friend who has terminal cancer.  She has dealt with cancer for 8 years now and everyday she lives life to the fullest.  Everyday she impacts others with her tenacious strength and sense of humor.  Humor you say?  Cancer you say?  I say "yes".  She has e-mailed her journey since diagnosed naming her posts as "The Blonde Boobie Press" and her e-mails have expanded worldwide.  She receives cards, letters, responses thanking her for her courage, giving her encouragement, it is a give and take unlike anything I have ever seen before.  She is now in New Mexico for a hot air balloon festival where she will help "crew"  and hopes to get a ride.  She is also currently making plans to go to Spain in November. She travels the world and I admire her strength. So my point here today is...be a doer in life...live with positive energy and light...that  is what is keeping my friend here...she enjoys her life...it is her spirit that keeps her moving...even though her physical body is ailing. God bless her, for she is an inspiration to many.  So as I conclude today's thought with a tear in my eye...it is not tears of sadness, but tears of joy and renewed commitment to make a difference in the lives of others. So be mindful of where your life is going....be a doer, live life to the fullest with wonder and gratitude.  Enjoy...make a difference, effectively express YOUR impact on this world!